Grindr for lesbians? Here are the best dating apps for LGBTQ women.
Online dating as a lesbian can be a joyous experience, but it can also involve having your space invaded by straight people or seeing your ex-girlfriends (and your ex-girlfriends’ ex-girlfriends) show up in your feed over and over.
Over the decades, queer women have turned to personal ads, roaming bars, and word of mouth to find love. These days, it’s not too different. From trying to find a date on WLW TikTok to entrapranureal lesbians creating new apps just for them, LGBTQ women are down to get creative to find their special someone.
Thankfully, in 2025, there are both niche and general apps where queer women can find a partner — whether for one night or for life. Which ones are the best dating apps for lesbians? We tested the most popular dating sites and apps and got some insight from our Dating & Relationships writers to find out.
How to find the best dating apps for lesbians
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Mainstream dating apps attract the most users — including queer users. That means niche lesbian dating apps aren’t your only options for finding love. These days, Hinge, Bumble, OkCupid, and even eharmony all have clear filters to help you match with people of the same gender (or any gender at all), as well as filters that acknowledge the existence of non-traditional relationships (like polyamory). Especially if you don’t live in a densely populated area, going for the more popular dating apps over lesbian dating sites can often lead to more results.
With that said, there is one dating app lesbian women should try. HER is an app by and for queer women, and it’s grown to have a strong user base. According to its website, the app has more than 15 million registered users worldwide. The app also emphasizes finding community and making friends, in addition to dating, providing you with numerous ways to connect with other queer women and non-binary users.
Check out our guide below for the full rundown of our recommendations and dating app reviews.
